My stepfather never used the word “step.”
Not once in the fifteen years he raised me did he draw that line. To him, I wasn’t a technicality or an obligation. I was simply his kid. He showed up in all the ways that mattered, quietly and consistently, without ever needing recognition for it.
He was the one who ran behind my bike with one hand on the seat until I learned to balance on my own. He was there when I failed my first serious math test and sat with me at the kitchen table, patiently going over every problem until the numbers finally made sense.
When I graduated high school, he stood in the crowd smiling like he’d won something himself, his eyes shiny in a way that made me laugh and tear up at the same time.
He never missed a parent meeting. Never forgot a birthday. Never once reminded me that we weren’t related by blood.
When he passed away, it felt like the ground gave out beneath my feet.
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