How to Interpret the Gesture
Ask yourself:
Was it brief and accidental — or deliberate and slow?
Did it come with eye contact, a smile, or lingering energy?
Do you share a close or flirtatious relationship?
Have they done it before — only with you?
Likely innocent: Quick, casual, done with everyone
Possibly flirtatious: Slow, soft, paired with a meaningful look
Possibly coded: Done in a group setting with others who seem to recognize it
Should You Respond?
If you feel comfortable and intrigued:
Return a slight squeeze or linger in the handshake a second longer
Smile knowingly
Bring it up playfully later: “Hey, what was that move during the handshake?”
But if it made you uncomfortable — trust that feeling. Boundaries matter, even in subtle moments.
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